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Sock it too Me 2009!

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December 17, 2009


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Again, Sarah, I'm so so sorry. If you're not ready to hear the DE pep talk I've had to give myself twice already (and possibly a 3rd time if this current up and down IVF cycle doesn't work out), don't read below yet. But just know that so many of us are still thinking of you. I hate that this had to happen to you. :(

I know DE may seem like hitting the bottom of your emotional reserve, and believe me, I've been there too. But there's almost something comforting about hitting emotional bottom, as sucky as the reasons are for getting there. DE doesn't seem so bad to us now, something we are so glad gave us another option.

As for financial, I'm not sure how your insurance works, but I was surprised to find out that many cover a portion of DE. Just an FYI.


love you
and totally get the impulse to be mad and angry & then even more mad and angry because there isn't a place to project such emotions towards.
it fucking sucks ass


sending hugs


Prayers and hugs.


Wish I could say something to make you feel better...thinking of you.


The place you are in now is awful, don't feel like you have to decide the next step this second. Although having a plan does give you focus - having been there I know I cling to a plan when I'm feeling so disoriented. We're on our 4th try with DE in January, hopefully with a happy outcome, but it is no guarantee. Thinking of you.


it is hard to really believe that pregnant means baby.


My heart is breaking for you.


I just wanted to let you know that I've been thinking of you. Take care.


thinking of you and sending you all my good energy



There's nothing I can say to make this better but I am so sorry because it's just so damn rotten.

much love,



I'm sorry you have to endure any of this and words seem like a drop in a sea of tears. Just sending an extra dose of hugs and love.

Kate Bassford Baker

Love you guys, and here to support you on whatever path you choose (or don't, for that matter).

I'm in SoCal and cut off from civilization here in the mountains until after Christmas, but will check in as often as I can and will email my folks' number separately just in case you need to call us.

Thinking of you...



I'm not sure what to do except hold your hand, so that is what I'll do.

Bee Cee

Sarah, I am so so sorry. I have only just seen your news so sorry as well for not sending you my love earlier. I know there are no words that can help, so I will say that I am thinking of you.


Oh christ no - I just heard. damn it. Damn it all. God I'm so sorry - there are just no words.


here via sorry for your loss...such devastating news...there really are no words. thinking of you...


Oh fuck, Sarah, I am so very sorry. Much love and strength to you and your husband.


I'm so sorry, and so angry for you. Hugs.


Sarah, I just read your last couple of posts and can't believe what has happened. I am so sorry.


I'm so sorry. I wish there was something, anything I could say or do to make this easier on you guys. This just really, really sucks. ((hugs))


I am so very sorry for all you are going through. You are in my thoughts and I am sending all the wishes of peace and strength I can muster.

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