The baby died sometime last week. D&C tomorrow. Heartbroken and numb.
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I am so, so sorry. There really aren't words but I wanted to let you know that I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and in the coming weeks as you face yet another loss. I really wish it didn't have to be so hard.
Oh heavens sweetheart, my heart is broken for you and your husband. I am soooooo sorry. Sending you as much love and comfort that I can during this time of grief.
Oh, dear god, no. I am so sorry and angry and just ragefilled on your behalf. I am thinking of you, wishing there was something to do, to say, to make it even a tinier bit better, but I know there's not. I am so very sorry.
Oh, honey. I never believed it would happen. I am so very sorry. I am in tears for you and holding you in my thoughts. I wish I could hold you in person.
It is so f'ing wrong and unfair. Sorry, sorry, sorry.
OH NO. I feel like someone just punched me in the gut. I am so very very sorry and heartbroken for you. This is so fucking unfair. Please reach out when and if you ever need to talk. P&PTs.
I'm so sorry. Even though it doesn't help, I'm sorry. Found you by way of Long Distance Infertility. I must say your intuition was uncanny. I wish so much your gut would have been wrong.
Sarah, I'm so, so sorry that this has happened to you - this is absolutely terrible. I wish I had better words of comfort. I got your comment on my blog. Right now, the only other person that I've found who was doing de/ds is Sky at No eggs in this basket http://noeggsinthisbasket.blogspot.com/
I am so, so sorry. There really aren't words but I wanted to let you know that I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and in the coming weeks as you face yet another loss. I really wish it didn't have to be so hard.
Posted by: Rachel | December 15, 2009 at 03:28 PM
Oh my god, no, I am so, so incredibly sorry. I will be thinking of you.
Posted by: meinsideout | December 15, 2009 at 03:28 PM
Oh heavens sweetheart, my heart is broken for you and your husband. I am soooooo sorry. Sending you as much love and comfort that I can during this time of grief.
Posted by: Traci | December 15, 2009 at 03:38 PM
I am so so so sorry. This is so incredibly horrible it defies words. You're in my thoughts *hugs*
Posted by: Kate | December 15, 2009 at 03:38 PM
Oh, dear god, no. I am so sorry and angry and just ragefilled on your behalf. I am thinking of you, wishing there was something to do, to say, to make it even a tinier bit better, but I know there's not. I am so very sorry.
Posted by: Sprogblogger | December 15, 2009 at 03:46 PM
Oh, honey. I never believed it would happen. I am so very sorry. I am in tears for you and holding you in my thoughts. I wish I could hold you in person.
It is so f'ing wrong and unfair. Sorry, sorry, sorry.
Posted by: Kami | December 15, 2009 at 04:07 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Melissa G | December 15, 2009 at 04:12 PM
OH NO. I feel like someone just punched me in the gut. I am so very very sorry and heartbroken for you. This is so fucking unfair. Please reach out when and if you ever need to talk. P&PTs.
Posted by: NoodleGirl | December 15, 2009 at 04:31 PM
Dammit. Dammit. Dammit. I am so sorry. And I am so fucking angry. I have a lump in my throat and cant even speak. I... Oh Sarah. I'm just so sorry.
Posted by: Michele | December 15, 2009 at 04:35 PM
I'm terribly sorry, I wish this weren't so.
Posted by: Mrs. Spit | December 15, 2009 at 04:50 PM
Oh my friend, I am so very sorry. my deepest sympathies and love to you
Eb
Posted by: EB | December 15, 2009 at 04:59 PM
I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you.
Posted by: PJ | December 15, 2009 at 05:20 PM
I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: hil | December 15, 2009 at 05:24 PM
Fuck.
I am so sorry.
g
Posted by: geohde | December 15, 2009 at 05:26 PM
I am sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Not On Fire | December 15, 2009 at 05:42 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you, please know that I care.
Posted by: Debby Pucci | December 15, 2009 at 05:43 PM
so unfair and so wrong. xox
Posted by: Eva | December 15, 2009 at 05:56 PM
I'm so sorry. Even though it doesn't help, I'm sorry. Found you by way of Long Distance Infertility. I must say your intuition was uncanny. I wish so much your gut would have been wrong.
Posted by: Lindsey | December 15, 2009 at 05:58 PM
Oh no. I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: a | December 15, 2009 at 05:59 PM
I am very sorry.
hope you can find some comfort and strenght to help you through this.
hugs
Posted by: clio | December 15, 2009 at 06:00 PM
I am truly very sorry. I was referred to your blog by Rachel of Long Distance Infertility.
I wish there was more I could do than send you my condolences.
Posted by: patt | December 15, 2009 at 06:14 PM
Oh Sarah. I'm speechless. I am so, so sorry. I hate the fucking universe sometimes. This is so incredibly unfair.
Mo
Posted by: Mo | December 15, 2009 at 06:21 PM
Sarah, I'm so, so sorry that this has happened to you - this is absolutely terrible. I wish I had better words of comfort. I got your comment on my blog. Right now, the only other person that I've found who was doing de/ds is Sky at No eggs in this basket http://noeggsinthisbasket.blogspot.com/
If I come across any others, I'll pass it along.
Posted by: Riley | December 15, 2009 at 06:40 PM
I'm fucking furious as hell about this.
Please let me know if I can help at all.
Posted by: Cecily | December 15, 2009 at 06:47 PM
I'm covered in goosebumps and still don't know what to say. I'm sorry.
Posted by: Me | December 15, 2009 at 07:02 PM