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Sock it too Me 2009!

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May 16, 2009

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meinsideout

Your post really touched me. You are really sweet and really patient - your love for your husband really shone through.

I feel terrible during the months we are not actively trying...I hate how my moods are directly tied into TTC action.

I hope that the time passes quickly with much healing and love. Also, maybe your dh should check out blogs written by men who are DS dads, here is one http://di-dad.blogspot.com/

niobe

I'm coming at this from a completely different place, but I wanted you to know that I identify with the jealousy described in this post. Like you, I really, really don't want to be jealous. But I am.

Tia

Thank you for writing about this. Feeling sad and left out is exactly how it seems. I don't get angry, I don't feel jealousy. Just sometimes sad and empty...then I pick myself up and try to look forward to having a family, however it comes.

Eva

I think it's hard not to feel jealous sometimes. You have every right to.

sara

You are so sweet! I don't deserve you!

Kami

I'm sorry I didn't comment when I first read this. I didn't realize that until I came back to check for updates.

I am so very sorry that the two of you are going through this. I remember when we found out we had MFI and it just gutted my husband. I think it is good to wait a month and give him a chance to catch up a bit.

"grieving in the midst of happiness" - I think that was true for us. I'm ok with that though. Maybe I should have processed it longer, but I am also glad we have our Little Butterfly now and we are no longer waiting to see what will work and when.

Peace and happiness to both of you.

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